tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4050410978229175568.post822677117054570701..comments2023-10-19T04:48:41.950-07:00Comments on Palabras de Deb: On finding a lifeDebhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13351832671251015384noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4050410978229175568.post-29860179845342345432009-01-25T23:36:00.000-08:002009-01-25T23:36:00.000-08:00Just a reminder that I am really trying to work on...Just a reminder that I am really trying to work on self-care...the concept taught me BY YOU! One of our keynote speakers this weekend emphasized relationship priorities: <BR/>1. self with God 2. self with self<BR/>3. self extending to others...IN THAT ORDER! As to the guilt, anxiety, workaholicability, type A thing...I'm soooo sorry you are your mother's daughter!! Remember I had a nervous breakdown even after my mother told me more than once that I was doing too much. Your mother says: "BALANCE AND MODERATION". And that's from someone who is an almost ever-so-wise sixty one year OLD!<BR/>Love, mejohnsuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16654727190509323983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4050410978229175568.post-83441142101281457872009-01-22T15:35:00.000-08:002009-01-22T15:35:00.000-08:00HOORAY!! I'm so excited for your new "life." If ...HOORAY!! I'm so excited for your new "life." If it helps, you can think of it this way; you will be doing your successor absolutely no favors if the church gets used to you giving them every ounce of your time and energy. It's also no good for the church to be THAT dependent upon their pastor. So when you go out with this lovely guy, do it with the knowledge that you ARE helping your congregation... learn to rely on themselves a bit. Love and happiness to you!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15276386024513245158noreply@blogger.com